On
several occasions, a twist to my social interaction, from afar, has
occurred. It was as if two extremes, one
from the left and one from the right came rushing together and merged as
seamlessly as possible.
Where
we live at the coast, we get our fair share of homeless people. Most of them are vagabond travelers “just a
passin’ through” heading to their next often unknown destination. You do what you can for who you can, but the
reality is, there is a limitation on our compassion and our grace.
I
am not trying to excuse our behavior and I am not trying to throw any guilt
around, Lord knows we have enough of that anyway, I am just stating the truth.
Now,
just twenty five miles north, a larger smaller town resides. And because it is larger, and it has a major
highway heading east out of it, there are more services for the homeless and
the “down and out” so you see a lot more of them on street corners with signs.
The signs are their communication with the world stating their plight, their unfortunate situations, and their felt need of money. You have them where you live as well. And, it seems like the same people are on the same corner with the same sign day after day after day. You may not travel that route for awhile, but look at that, three months later and the same guy is still there.
Now,
let’s talk about me. I have a cell
phone. I know that is not news as it
seems like everybody these days have cell phones. I have even seen eight year olds with them and
my own son, whose six, has been pretending that he has a phone for at least
three years. I remember my toy phone as
a kid. It was brightly colored with a
smiling face, wheels and a pig tail piece of cord so I could drag it anywhere.
But
now I am a grown up and I have a cell phone.
And as far as cell phones go, it is a dinosaur. It has no connection to the internet and it
is a flip phone. It has not been
upgraded for a long time now.
But it works for me and since we don’t have
good reception where we are and we are “grandfathered” in with our plan, there
just doesn’t seem to be need for me to change it up. Maybe someday.
The
following event has not happened to me twice.
The people are different but the story is the same one. I was in a grocery store coffee shop doing
some reading, writing, and sipping on my old reliable “a grande, non-fat
vanilla latte” when a homeless guy walks
in and sits down at a table.
There
is a bus stop right outside, so they come in out of the rain to wait. And without pre-judging, it is kind of
obvious from just casual observation that he’s homeless. Dirty clothes, matted hair, a well worn back pack,
a bit of body odor, and a cardboard sign.
As
I sit there, writing in my spiral notebook, reading my paperback, sipping on my
coffee, my Samsung flip phone sitting on the table, I think to myself that I am
truly grateful to God that I am not homeless.
At least not yet. I am not
lording it over him or believing that I am so much better than him, no, it was
more of a realization of the undeserved mercy and provision that God has given
me.
And
because of that, I was contemplating.
Maybe I should get this guy a cup of coffee or a muffin or
something. Then a phone ringer goes off.
And the homeless guy pulls out his smart phone and answers it.
I
mean this guy has a better, more expensive, and fully loaded bells and
whistles. I don’t know what kind of plan
he is on whether it is monthly or a pay as you go, but the reality is that he
is more technologically connected to the 21st century than I
am.
On
the different occasion, with a different guy, same scenario. He pulls out his smart phone, makes a call, connects
his ear buds and listens to Pandora or his downloaded “road trip mix” and begins to read the most
current novel ranked number one on the best sellers list.
I
think that it is great that everyone has a cell phone. We all know how important the can be
especially in an emergency or a crisis.
Years ago, as I was watching the news about the Columbine school
murders, there was an interview on how several students used their cell phones
to call their parents, to call the police,
and to call for help.
I
knew then, that phones, no matter how annoying they can be, no matter how many
times poor etiquette seems to go hand in hand with them, they are a good thing.
So, have a phone, I am good with that.
Even if you are homeless.
I
just don’t get the smart phone in one hand and the cardboard sign in
another. When did that become the
norm? Over and over again, people come
and ask for money for us to put them up in a motel, or to buy them a meal, and
in their pocket is a piece of machinery that has not only revolutionized the
world, it has rendered useless the need
for owning other separate gadgets. Don’t
need a laptop. Don’t need a camera. Don’t need a stereo. Don’t need a day planner. Don’t need maps. Don’t need a newspaper. Don’t need a video game.
And
yet, even with that powerful piece of technology, there still seems to be a
need for some to have a cardboard sign.
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