We had a little bit of time on Saturday to look around the
town before going over to our friends house and having a barbeque, so we found
ourselves downtown for a look. They
were having a Saturday Farmer’s Market and we got out to peak at the booths and
the items for sale. It was a typical
market with produce, hand made crafts, candles, scarves, honey, etc.
At some point my four year old marches up to the herbs and
spices booth and says, as matter of factly, to the seller of said herbs and
spices, “I would like a green balloon please.”
Oh yeah, and four, there were no balloons anywhere at the
booth, let alone green ones. The kind
lady said, “You do, do you?” She then
excused herself and went to some to the other booths before coming back and
telling my son, “They have some balloons at the far booth with the red awning.”
So off we went to find a balloon. Arriving at the “Balloon” booth, my son again asks politely, “I
would like a green balloon, please.”’
“All we have are red ones. Would
you like a red one?” “Oh yes,
please.” We do have a polite little
guy.
The lady proceeded to tie the balloon on to his wrist, and
after a “Thank you” off we went heading back to our car. Walking though the market, our son a couple
of times exclaimed to those passing by, “See my red balloon?”
As we got to the sidewalk, my boy no longer wanted the red
balloon tied to his wrist. He wanted to
hold the ribbon in his hand. My wife
was explaining to him that he would have to be very careful and to hold on
tight and not let go of the ribbon. And
there he was, ever so carefully, holding the ribbon that held the red balloon
in his tiny little hand. So excited was
he. And then. . . .
It all happened so fast.
His little fingers on his little hand opened. The red balloon with the ribbon began to lift in the air. My wife did make a valiant attempt to grab
the ribbon as it floated up. But, to no
avail. The red balloon went higher and
higher into the air.
My son’s face said it all.
First, there was a look of “what just happened?” Then there was shock. And then, the tears. “My balloon! It’s in the air! Get
it! Can you get it please! Up there!”
My son is known for his pathos, and this was no
exception. His weeping and wailing and
moaning and mourning were too much for any parent with a conscience to
handle. My wife knelt down by our
sobbing and grieving son doing her best to console him and to also remind him
of what she had said about holding tightly the ribbon.
The tears, however, continued. And continued. And continued with the intermittent, “My balloon! My red balloon! It’s gone! Up in the
air!”
Prior to getting into the car, we made our way to Safeway to
buy some water and juice as the temperature was approaching the 90’s. At the register, my boy explained his plight
to the cashier. “I lost my red
balloon. It went up in the sky. It’s gone.”
“Well, we will just have to get you another one. Would you like another balloon?” He responded, “Yes, please.” Taking a red balloon from a display and
tying it to his wrist, she said, “There you go.” “Thank you,” he said. (I told you he was polite). And off we went. And everybody was happy.
Wait. . . .
Though he seemed happy to have another red balloon, he was,
for the next half hour, still sad and weepy about his other red balloon that
was lost. I am not going to lie when I
say that I was getting a bit frustrated at his continual mention of his lost
red balloon when he had a perfectly good, new and better looking balloon on his
wrist. My wife mentioned that he seems
to have real concern over the lost red balloon. Then things seem to settle back down again.
The next night, he woke up and couldn’t get back to
sleep. No doubt it was due to being in
a motel and it was still hot, he snuggled into our bed. And for the next forty-five minutes, he and
I had some wonderful conversation with each other and performed some skits with
his teddy bear. Then, almost out of the
blue, he began to softly quiver and said in the saddest whisper I have ever
heard, “My red balloon is up in the sky and it is lost.”
My boy was concerned about the well being of the red
balloon. It was far away from
anybody. It was all alone. My wife was right that he was concerned
because the balloon was lost. Out there in the air and nobody was able to get
it. Poor little red balloon all by
itself.
Jesus said that, “the Son of Man has come to seek and to save that which was lost.
My son of me, desired to save that which was lost.
In Jesus’ case, He was speaking about people. My son was speaking of a red balloon. And if my son has such concern over lost
little red balloon, how much more should I or we be concerned over people who
are just as lost?
That'll preach. And I will, on August 5th, at the coast.
Losing balloons is so sad! I remember when my niece L (who you now know!) let one go when she was about 2 or 3. She was so genuinely sad that I thought I might cry too! But she was probably sad for losing the balloon, not for the balloon's being all alone. :) Love the story and the visual aids!
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